Navigating Grief Workbook

Exercises for Better Managing Bereavement

In the first few months following my wife’s death, I read several books about grief. Not satisfied with the progress I was making I decided to double down on my efforts to learn more. It wasn’t long into this second wave of effort that I realized I could learn everything there was to know about grief and still not heal. The vast difference between knowledge and wisdom became clear to me. Until I took action aligned with what I was learning I would never gain wisdom, and it is only in wisdom where healing and transformation are found, not in knowledge alone.

I designed the exercises in this workbook to help me bridge the gap between knowledge and wisdom because I didn't just want to know how to heal, I wanted to actually heal. Doing the exercises took me on a journey that was often painful and required soul-searching and unfiltered honesty. Having done them myself, I know the exercises in this workbook will move your forward in your journey to healing.

- Jed Smith

Sampling of Workbook Pages

Benefits of Completing this Workbook Include:

  • Structured Guidance: Provides a structured path through the often chaotic and overwhelming process of grief, helping you move through your emotions in a constructive way.
  • Increased Self-awareness: Encourages deep introspection, leading to increased self-awareness and understanding of your unique grief responses and needs.
  • Emotional Expression: Offers a safe space for the expression of difficult emotions, which can be cathartic and healing.
  • Coping Skills: Teaches effective coping mechanisms for managing intense emotions and moments of overwhelming grief.
  • Normalization of Grief: Helps individuals understand that their feelings are normal and valid, reducing feelings of isolation or being misunderstood.
  • Connection with Loved One: Facilitates a continued bond with the deceased, allowing for the expression of unsaid words, unexpressed feelings, and unresolved issues.
  • Personal Growth: Promotes personal growth and development by encouraging individuals to reflect on their experiences and find meaning in their loss.
  • Memory Preservation: Assists in the preservation of memories and honoring of the loved one’s life, which is an important aspect of healing.
  • Building Resilience: Enhances resilience by equipping individuals with tools and strategies to face future challenges more effectively.
  • Encouragement of Self-Care: Highlights the importance of self-care and encourages practices that support physical, emotional, and mental health.